Abigail Shines!

I know you don't here from me much lately.  Seems time is just a little thin with work, kids, etc.  I do however love to use my blog as a place to get on my soapbox and brag about my kids, so here goes!



I just wanted to make this post and let the world see just how much my daughter Abigail has grown as a young lady.  Here is Abby performing in her Christmas voice recital.  I am just amazed that this kid has the talent and wherewithal to get up in front of a large crowd and belt out these songs!  Great job my dear. You are truly an unbelievable talent, and the most loving daughter a dad can ask for!

With much pride!

Wacky Dad

Farewell To My "Sister"

I'll catch hell for posting this bathing suit picture from my
wife as well as Becca, but I don't care. Wifey is left and
My "Sis" is on the right.

It has been great having my sister-in-law back in country for the last few weeks.  She is my wife's twin sister, and I have known them both since they were 12 years old.  One of my fondest memories of Rebecca and I as childhood friends was our ongoing game of "Punch Buggy".  Every time one of us saw a VW bug we would haul off and nail the others shoulder with everything we had.  We both spent our summers with bruised shoulders, but we loved the game.
       Rebecca's husband's work brings him to Germany full time, so they have moved there permanently with their 2 children for the next couple of years.  This has been hard on my wife, who basically talks to Becca on a daily basis, if not hourly sometimes!  Good thing we have the unlimited plan!
       Last night my daughter Mia and I were the first ones to have to leave the family get together that we were having, and therefore were the first ones that Becca had to say goodbye to before she returns to Germany.  For the first time in my life, as I hugged Rebecca and she sobbed, I really felt like I was saying goodbye to a blood sister, being that I'm an only child.
       I reminisced on the ride home about just how long I really have known Rebecca, 29 years, and most of those years we have been active friends.  I'm not always quick on the uptake, but I just realized yesterday how important all of Cathy's family have become to me.  After 17 years of marriage they have all become great friends.  I know many of their idiosyncrasies and they know most of mine!  But to my "big sister" Becca, I will miss you dearly sister, you are one of my oldest friends, and one of my best friends.  When Germany is done with you, we will be relieved to have you back with us.  Have a safe trip, I love you.


Sincerely,

Wacky Dad (AKA Eric)     

Chasing Pancreatic Cancer - On A Bike

3rd Annual Karen Petty Memorial Double Century Bike Ride
Against Pancreatic Cancer

September 29th, 2012

I hope this letter finds you all well. Many of you who I write to today are dear friends of mine and some of you who support my ride are only bound to me by a common cause. That cause is our desire to end Pancreatic Cancer as a disease. I started the Karen Petty Double Century in 2010 in an effort to honor my lifelong friend Karen Petty, and to raise funds to defeat the disease that took her from us. For those of you who know Karen, you understand why I ride in her memory. Karen was loved by all who knew her. Her family adored her. I adore all of Karen’s family as brothers, sisters, and aunts, and uncles even though we share no blood relations. I grew up calling Karen “Auntie” and her husband “Uncle” Joe. As an only child, I didn’t have siblings. Karen’s own kids, Jason and Kerri, and her Nephew Billy were my brothers and sisters, and they are as important to me as if we were related by blood. I grew up with all of them, and always felt a part of their family. It only felt natural to do something “big” upon Karen’s passing, not only to honor Karen’s memory, but to show her family how much they all mean to me. I am not always rich in words, but I am capable of producing an occasional deed that can raise an eyebrow or two. This 200 mile, one day bike ride, which starts at Karen’s house in West Warwick, RI, to her Cabin in Thornton, NH, started as a deed I thought was honorable enough to memorialize Karen. I hope it has proven so.
In the ensuing years since the first ride, I have become very involved in our local affiliate of the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, a national organization creating hope in a comprehensive way through research, patient support, community outreach and advocacy for a cure. In short, they are the national leaders in the fight against Pancreatic Cancer. 

Karen Petty - The Reason We Ride

Since joining the organization 2 years ago, I am proud to say that I have been a part of a great team, many of who were close friends or family of Karen’s. Together, we have collectively raised around $350,000 and have made Rhode Island a leader in the fight against Pancreatic Cancer. Karen’s ride has raised almost $30,000 on its own, and we wish to increase and continue that success. One of the men that I met as a result of my volunteer work was a guy named Peter Washburn. He was actively fighting his own Pancreatic Cancer. Peter and I shared a lot of common interests, and our personalities really meshed. We became quick friends. He became my second friend to fight this disease for their lives, only this time I knew how deadly it really was. Peter was a picture of mental toughness. He never complained. He just fought like hell. I immediately idolized the man. He was everything I hoped I could be in his situation. We went on to plan last year’s Purple Stride Walk with the rest of our Rhode Island team. I spoke with Pete a couple times a week and he inspired me to fight even harder against this disease. After the walk, he took an interest in my bike ride since he was a cyclist as well. Pete even enlisted his nephew Tyler to ride with me for the 2011, 200 Mile ride. Peter’s tireless efforts in the fundraising process helped the ride to earn almost $18,000 last year. The man was just incredible. He rode in the support vehicle for 14 hours that day, waking at 2:00 am in the morning to make it happen and to cheer us on with his sisters at the start of the ride. All the while, he was fighting the Pancreatic Cancer in his body. He was the least healthy of us all by far, but showed more spirit and guts all day long than anyone else. I remember seeing him changing flat tires in the back of a bouncing, jostling, pickup truck on the way up to New Hampshire and my eyes filled up with tears thinking how tough the guy was, and just how much it meant to him to have the ride succeed. I loved him as a friend, and as an archetype of what a strong and loving man should be. Sadly, even Peter could not beat this disease, and he passed away about 3 months after the ride. Pete’s passing has strengthened my resolve even more. Pancreatic Cancer is virtually unstoppable with the medicines that are available to patients right now. The only way that we can defeat this disease is to raise money for research and awareness of the deadlines of this disease. The harder we fight, the more likely it is that the federal government will pass the much awaited Pancreatic Cancer Bill that will really give the funds and the impetus to kill this disease. Please help me bring the fight against Pancreatic Cancer in my own way; on two wheels, riding from Karen Petty’s home in West Warwick, RI to one of her favorite spots in the world, her cabin in Thornton, New Hampshire.
This will be my third time riding this annual ride. For the entire 200 miles this year, I will be accompanied by two great friends, Greg Anderson, who rode the ride with me last year, and Ed Hernaez, my buddy and great friend and one of the toughest athletes I know. Also John Braica, a close friend of mine and Karen’s will ride the last 100 miles with us, and we are lucky enough this year to have my skiing buddy Bill Fontaine and my father Leo Costantino (68 years young) ride those last 100 miles with us as well. I thank these amazing guys in advance for joining this fight with me. They are all true warriors, and I know we can ride this disease down to the ground together, all in Karen’s name.

Please visit www.firstgiving.com/fundraiser/karenpettydoublecentury/ride
 

Sincerely Determined,

Eric Costantino

My Wacky Is Back!

Remember me?  The guy who used to write spontaneous, fun, and somewhat interesting blog posts?  I sort of got lost there for a while.  I think the blog even helped to steal away my Wacky for a little while.  Too many worries in life can tip the balance the other way on you, and it doesn't take much to go over the edge.  I went through a period of time this last year when I just didn't have the usual fire that I have.  My thought is that I just had one too many things on my mind.  I work like a dog, try to play as hard as I can, typically skiing every weekend in the winter, riding my bike in my spare time in the summer, volunteering rabidly to fight against Pancreatic Cancer, a disease I hate with a passion after losing a life long role model and friend to it, and the list goes on.

About 3 years ago I decided I wanted to buy a sailboat.  The first year I loved it.  The second year I liked it, but just didn't have the time to use it.  The third year my Grandfather passed away, and the boat just sat on the mooring, forlorn and sad, like I felt.  She wasn't a boat that wanted to sit, she wanted a fresh breeze and a hard beat to windward.  I felt a constant guilt that I wasn't making use of the boat, that was for me a significant yearly investment of money.  I finally bit the bullet and sold Kittiwake this summer.  The difference has been tangible.  I feel like the boat was the pinnacle of the tipping point for me.  I just couldn't find the time to use her and it made me miserable to know I was wasting my money, and my boat was wasting away.  I only know this for a fact because I feel an incredible lightening of my spirit now.  Maybe I'm not too bright(you don't have to affirm this in the comments section!), but I never put two and two together.  I have been having a great summer so far, and I really haven't done anything monumental.  I have done a few projects around the house that have included my girls that have made me feel like a good father again.  I am creating and inventing things again.

It doesn't look like much, but it actually
does heat water

Shower Wood!

I built an outdoor shower out of a bunch of scrap wood that I collected from an old carriage house that my company is renovating.  Sounds simple right?  Well I am simple!  I taught my kids how to drill, screw, cut, resaw, dig, mix concrete, etc....I was a father again, a teacher, no matter how bad!  I'm hooked!  After building our shower which is fed by the ice cold stream in our yard, I decided it would be cool to build a solar hot water heater.  We have had some success with it, but again, assembling this project with my kids, and the laying in bed at night thinking about design problems and solving them has made my feel like my old wacky self again.  Now there are rumors of a waterslide in the back yard...Hmmmm.

The almost finished project! Nothing is ever
quite done around here!

I even talked my wife into mounting the solar monstrosity onto the side of my house, yeah I know, she loves me..  I guess my point is, that if you're not feeling like yourself, you might have just one small obstacle that is putting your over the point of no return.  For me it was a boat not being used.  Maybe for you it's a dirty garage, or too much overtime. Yup my garage is dirty but that ain't my tipping point!  Who the hell knows.  I promise you if you feel like you have lost your "wacky" that it is time to take a step back and evaluate life for a few minutes, because when you get that "wacky back it is sheer bliss!  I hope to be here blogging more often then I have been, but not at the expense of my Wacky!






Love,


Wacky Dad!

A New Way For Wacky To Brush Teeth!

So I recently got this cool proposal to try out a new state of the art power toothbrush from Oral-B called the Oral-B Professional Care SmartSeries with SmartGuide. I have been scrubbing my fangs with all manner of low tech brushes for  my whole life, so I jumped at the chance to try out something new for a change. Plus I figured any kind of toothbrush with lights, bells, and whistles, and a big kickin' motor in it just has to be plain cool!   

I've been using the new brush for a couple of weeks now, and have to say that it really is a step up from anything I have used in the past.  The way this thing scrubs in like running your mouth through a car wash!  Also the wireless timer is ultra cool and keeps you honest.  It pauses every 30 seconds so that your reminded to switch quadrants in your mouth.  I have used it religiously twice a day, and so far my mouth has been a happier place because of it for sure.  I have always tried to teach my kids good brushing habits, but this thing really has taught me how to properly focus for the brushing period that I use it for.  I really think my kids could benefit from one of these beauties.  Oral-B is offering a $10 mail-in rebate on select power toothbrushes April 29 through June 16, 2012. Please visit OralB.com for more information    I'll be posting with a follow up post to let you all know just how happy my mouth in another week or two.  Happy brushing all!


Happily Brushed!


Wacky Dad


“I wrote this review while participating in a blog tour by Dad Central Consulting on behalf of Oral-B and received a product sample to facilitate my review and a promotional item to thank me for taking the time to participate.”